Tuesday 26 March 2013

Why Women Cry ? Watch her eyes


 

A little boy asked his mother,
"Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told
... him.
..."I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said,
"And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does mother seem to cry for
no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason,"
was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a
man,
still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God.
When God got on the phone,
he asked,
"God, why do women cry so
easily?"
God said:
"When I made the woman she had
to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough
to carry the weight of the world,
yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her an inner strength to
endure childbirth and the rejection
that many times comes from her
children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her
to keep going when everyone else
gives up,
and take care of her family through
sickness and fatigue without
complaining.
I gave her the sensitivity to love her
children under any and all
circumstances,
even when her child has hurt her
very badly.
I gave her strength to carry her
husband through his faults and
fashioned her from his rib to protect
his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a
good husband never hurts his wife,
but sometimes tests her strengths
and her resolve to stand beside him
unfalteringly.
And finally, I gave her a tear to shed.
This is her?s exclusively to use
whenever it is needed."
"You see my son," said God,
"the beauty of a woman is not in the
clothes she wears,
the figure that she carries,
or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be
seen in her eyes,
because that is the doorway to her
heart - the place where love resides."

ABCD...........1234

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z 
Is represented as:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

If:      H-A-R-D-W-O- R- K8+1+18+4+23+ 15+18+11 = 98%

And:  K-N-O-W-L-E- D-G-E11+14+15+23+ 12+5+4+7+ 5 = 96%

But:   A-T-T-I-T-U- D-E1+20+20+9+20+ 21+4+5 = 100%

THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:
L-O-V-E-O-F- G-O-D12+15+22+5+15+ 6+7+15+4 = 101%

Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:
While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close,
and Attitude willget you there,
It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

love,wealth and success

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men  sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat." "Is the man of the house home?", they asked."No", she said "He's out." "Then we cannot come in," they replied.


In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. "Go tell them I am home and invite them in!" The woman went out and invited the men in. "We do not go into a House together" they replied. "Why is that?" she wanted to know. One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and then pointed to another one,"He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How nice!!," he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!" His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?" Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"

"Let us hear our daughter-in-law's advice," said the husband to his wife.
 "Go out and invite Love to be our guest."
The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."
Love got up and started walking toward the house.
The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"
The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him.
 Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!!!"

TOP 4 MAJOR CAUSES OF BREAKUPS IN RELATIONSHIPS


Most women today wonder what went wrong when they suddenly find themselves single again after a long or short term relationship. Was it something you did or said? Sometimes yet, and sometimes no. Here are some of the top reasons why men dump women. Take a look and see which of these (if any) apply to your past breakups.

(1) Jealousy
Have you ever acted sulky after your man went out for a night with his friends? Has he ever had to explain to you who that girl was you saw him talking to? Guys don’t like a jealous woman. They may put up with you for awhile, but they will get sick and tired of your attitude and answering your million questions. If you tend to be the jealous type, try your best to keep it under wraps. At the very least, talk openly and honestly with your man about it and never accuse him of anything without having clear proof

(2) Out of Love
Some relationships just aren’t meant to be. For whatever reason, he may just not love you anymore or feel that “spark” that is so important for a couple. If this happens to you, make it a learning experience! Now you know what you like and don’t like.

(3) Different values
You may be Agnostic and he is Christian. Or you want to get married soon and he doesn’t. Whatever the reason may be, the two of you have values that are just too different. When you get over the hurt of being dumped you will realize that he did you a favor. Do you really want to be with someone who holds different values? If you do, expect significant challenges down the road.

(4) Secrets Don’t Make Boyfriends
You may be a very private person. You don’t want to tell him everything about you just yet. However, be careful that you don’t hold your cards too close to your chest. If you don’t let him in to know the real you, he may hightail it out of there wondering what you have to hide.
Now that you know some of the top reasons why men break up with women, examine your past relationships. Is there a pattern? If you realize that you tend to be a jealous girlfriend, work on it and try to be better. Don’t let any of these be reasons why you get broken up with again

Sunday 10 March 2013

Exceptional Excellence...Strive For It!!!


 http://seekersportal.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/babyboomertalkonlinecom.jpgFrom every family and industry, all areas of society and fields of endeavor need otherworldly thinkers, lovers, and leaders to rise above the status quo.
People who dare to be different to become catalysts of change aspire for excellence in all that they are and everything they do.
 
When excellence becomes a lifestyle, everything else with it, becomes easily executable because it has been repeated many times before, like a daily habit.
 
Do you want to be excellent just like everyone else? Nope, I don’t. 
                                                                               I want to be exceptionally excellent.
 
Exceptional excellence requires:
1.)   Being faithful in the little things because all great things starts small
2.)   Doing the same old boring strokes as needed
3.)   Taking risks in new ideas, experiences, and relationships
4.)   Continuing even when others have already given up
5.)   Living out your values and vision even if sometimes it means walking alone
Catalysts of change embody the following traits in exceptional amount:
  • Lifelong learning and personal growth
  • Passion
  • Courage
  • Tenacity
  • Faith
The road to becoming exceptionally excellent is a long and narrow road – not an easy one – but with the help of family, friends and God, it is possible.
 
 
What is Excellence?

Excellence means exhibiting characteristics that are very good and, implicitly, not achievable by all.
 
Excellence enshrines one meaning of quality: a traditional view that associates quality with the exceptional.
 
Exceptionally excellence is one of the core definitions of Quality.
The exceptional view sees quality as something special. Traditionally, quality refers to something distinctive and élitist, and, in educational terms is linked to notions of excellence, of ‘high quality’ beyond that to which most institutions or scholars can aspire.
 
Definition of Quality:  "WOW" RATIONALE: Suppose you were with your *soul mate*, *significant other* *spouse* etc. and after a relationship that person looked longingly into your eyes and said "That met the requirements!" or "There were no defects there!" or "That had all the value I wanted!" or "The degree of excellence was acceptable!. Wouldn't you rather have that person look into your eyes and say  "WOW!"

@RPF  this is our slogan, '......its all about fab-fash' and our policy..."Quality" is to satisfy the ever-changing needs of our customers, vendors and employees, with value added products and services emphasizing a continuous commitment to satisfaction through an ongoing process of education, communication, evaluation and constant improvement. We work tirelessly to be exceptionally excellent in all we do. You can not separate the process and the human factor, therefore I believe that Quality, when built into a product, generates emotions and feelings within those who have taken part in it's creation.  When you have made something that you are proud of, when you have produced a product that  brings smiles to your customers, then you have achieved Quality.  You'll know it, they'll know it, and each of you will prosper from it. 

'Excellence is generally taken to mean outstanding, or of a quality that surpasses a defined threshold in a particular field. In the case of research, there is no agreed way in which excellence is defined or measured uniformly across different disciplines at the international level, although some attempts have been made using bibliometric analyses, with limited success. The UK Higher Education Funding Councils currently seek to measure the quality of research at the national level in all subject areas through periodic Research Assessment Exercises. The RAE does this by assessing research against assumed measures of international excellence. It does not however seek to benchmark quality against international comparators since there are no internationally agreed measures of quality
 
In a paper entitled, The Power of Quality, the Deutsche Gesellschaft für Qualität e.V., a member and national partner organisation of the European Foundation for Quality Management (EFQM), states
'Excellence is defined as exceptionally good performance in all areas of management'.
 
Excellence is defined by University of St. Thomas Deans and Directors as "doing it all". Academic excellence is defined by UST Academic Excellence Committee as "engaging his or her discipline with an attitude of intellectual curiousity and a desire to make meaningful contributions to the field", "sharing his or her scholarly inquiries with students in a systematic and meaningful way so as to enhance their collegiate experience".
 
Relating excellence to service provision, University of Louisville (1995) states:
“Operational excellence” is defined as a focus on reliability, convenience, and price competitiveness. Customers would expect total availability, security and integrity of the infrastructure and services. Customers expect reliability to be the norm, followed by convenience (delivery of quick, dependable service), and then price competitiveness (lowest price.)